Thursday, July 31, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 18 - 30 Random Facts About Me

Onward to Day 18: "Post 30 facts about yourself".

When I first saw this challenge, I thought to myself "I can't think of a more boring challenge." But, this challenge was far more difficult than I thought it would be. It's remembering to write down "facts" not "opinions".

Okay, here it goes:
  1. I am the servant to a beautiful Manx cat and she is quite demanding and entirely lovely.
  2. I'm the youngest of 5 siblings.
  3. I measure my life in three month increments - never looking further forward than that.
  4. I have never lived without a pet in my home, usually dogs or cats, but have also had fish, birds, hamsters, lizards, and turtles.
  5. I love anything water: rain, ocean, pool, lakes, rivers, puddles, etc.
  6. I love to swim - it's my favorite form of exercise, but I rarely get a chance to swim.
  7. I love the ocean, but I hate the beach. I wish there was a way to get into the ocean without walking through sand.
  8. I can play 9 different musical instruments (guitar, piano, flute, piccolo, recorder, oboe, saxophone, drums, and kazoo) - although I suck at drums.
  9. Donny Osmond was my first celebrity crush. I used to watch The Donny & Marie Show religiously and wished I could oust Marie. (Although I was NEVER a little bit country.) While I no longer crush on Donny, I still love to hear him sing. (Guilty pleasure.)
  10. Crowds make me nervous. People are too unpredictable and I don't feel safe standing among them. Also, being short, I can't see over the crowd.
  11. I quit drinking alcohol on July 9, 2010 after a particularly bad night of drinking on the 8th. I haven't had a drink since. 
  12. I still like to lick the beaters and bowls when baking. 
  13. I love to crochet but don't do it often enough. I have about 4 different projects started that I need to complete.
  14. Years ago, I took ASL classes and was getting pretty fluent until it got to be an expensive hobby. I would like to go back to learning sign language.
  15. I hate anything coffee related, which includes ice cream, tiramisu, and mocha-anything. 
  16. I think sunsets are prettier than sunrises but I love both.
  17. If I could spend the rest of my life traveling, I would do it.
  18. Clowns freak me out! I don't know if I would go so far as to say I have coulrophobia, but I really don't like clowns.
  19. Growing up, I wanted to have the following careers: marine biologist, archaeologist, or surgeon.
  20. In 1984, I purchased my first car which was a 1974 orange Ford Pinto station wagon that cost me $400. I hated that car.
  21. I got my first tattoo at age 39. I now have 6 tattoos and still love each and every one. Thinking of getting a 7th.
  22. I was kicked by a donkey when I was about 4 years old and had nightmares about it for years. My dreams would have the donkey kicking me clear across the road.
  23. I love DIY television shows, blogs, and magazines although I don’t own a house or know how to safely use a power tool.
  24. I have lived in 12 different houses during my lifetime, which averages to a new house every 4 years.
  25. I consistently have a pile of books on my shelves ready for reading, yet I continue to buy new ones to add to the pile.
  26. In college, I majored in music for my Associate's degree, English literature for my Bachelor's degree, and Education for my Master's degree (expected to finish in December this year). I would like to get a Ph.D. focusing on 19th century British novels.
  27. I have never been in a long term relationship. 
  28. I wore braces for 2 years, 3 months and 11 days during my middle school years. Not that I was counting or anything.
  29. I hate the color pink. 
  30. Unlike most women, I barely wear any jewelry.  Usually, when I do wear it, it annoys me and I end removing the items. 
Tomorrow's topic: Day 19 - discuss your first love.  (Blech!)

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 17 - It's The Age of Aquarius, Baby!

I'm very excited for today's (Day 17) topic - "Post about your zodiac sign and whether or not it fits you".

I did a bit of research on my zodiac sign and below are the highlights of a much longer article.

My zodiac signs is Aquarius - The Water Bearer. 

"[Aquarians] are humanitarian, philanthropic and keenly interested in making the world a better place ... Aquarians are visionaries, progressive souls who love to spend time thinking about how things can be better ... [T]hey are at a near-genius level, so their minds churn out some amazing things. Their thought process is also inventive and original ... Aquarians can be impatient, even temperamental, with those who disagree [with them] ... can be quite fixed in their opinions ... are freedom-loving and individualistic and need to roam (and yes, they do enjoy travel). While Aquarians are generally sympathetic and compassionate, they like it when things go their own quirky way. Some might call their behavior eccentric (and they would be right), but when you consider that the Aquarian's heart is truly in the right place, a few oddities should be overlooked. In their own way, Aquarians treasure their many friends and acquaintances and want to give back as much as they can.
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Aquarians love to think and put their ideas out to the world. They also love to think they're right ... can think creatively and inventively ... Water Bearers are all about progress and technology -- they love the latest gadgets, gewgaws, computers and next-generation technologies. Thanks to a genius that borders on insanity (!), those born under this sign have the unique ability to present ideas that will revolutionize the world. Their approach in doing so may be unpredictable, impersonal and at times cold.
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Aquarians will accomplish much with their broad and logical minds, entertaining complex and scientific ideas for the betterment of all. That said, they are also artistic and inventive. It's all in the spirit of creating a better world, hopefully one in keeping with their broad-minded beliefs ... Those born under this sign are altruistic, humane people who are determined to make a difference.

At play, Aquarians like to surround themselves with lots of people, preferably family and friends. That said, if they don't know the 'players,' they soon will! Baseball and tennis are fun for these folks (though they should watch for weak ankles), and a daily swim would also be nice. Aquarians favor watery colors, like shiny silver or aqua blue. When it comes to love, Aquarians will also be playful, even flirtatious. While they play for keeps, it won't necessarily feel that way, since these folks are the opposite of jealous.

The great strengths of the Aquarius-born are their vision, intellect and humanity. They are determined to make the world a better place and to help everyone they can along the way. They are truly the trailblazers of the zodiac" (Astrology.com)

Likes: Fighting for causes, dreaming and planning for the future, thinking of the past, good companions, having fun. Dislikes: Full of air promises, excessive loneliness, the ordinary, imitations, idealistic. Compatible with: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, and other Aquarius.

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How do I rank according to this information? This is not the first time that I've examined my zodiac sign. I've long known that I am a quintessential Aquarian. In fact, there isn't anything in this list that doesn't describe me. One of the reasons I became a teacher is because of my humanitarian tendencies.  You notice that Aquarians are "near genius" and I'd like to think I'm pretty smart...okay, more than 'smart'. I definitely do like to get my own way and if I think I'm right, I will not back down. I do love the latest technology and traveling. Science fascinates me, but am I very creative. I love baseball, tennis, and swimming. I'm definitely playful and flirtatious, and never jealous. The people that I am closest to all fit into the 5 listed signs (particularly Libra and Sagittarius). Under "Aquarius" on Wikipedia, they should just post a picture of me.

Personally, I think Aquarians are the rock stars of the zodiac, but I'm slightly biased. I'm curious as to how my brother, Tom, will be responding to today's challenge. He's an Aquarian as well and doing this challenge right along with me (Daddy Tom's Rants). I wonder if he thinks he is a typical Aquarian too.

When I performed in Hair in NYC a lifetime ago, I was lucky enough to sing the opening song, "Aquarius". Sadly, this is not a recording of me singing!


Tomorrow - Day 18: 30 Facts About Me (30!?!? Sheesh!)

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 16 - Missing Something...

We've hit day 16 and a most annoying assignment: "something that you miss."

Let me start out by saying: I'm not an overly sentimental person - unlike my mother. Oddly, when clearing out my mother's house, my brother and I found unorganized boxes of greeting cards - every card my mother received for every possible holiday (anniversary, birthday, Valentine's, and others) over the course of 50+ years and I kept thinking "Why? Why keep all that crap?" You see, I toss greetings cards within a short amount of time after receiving them, depending on who they're from and what they're wishing. Don't get me wrong, I do keep a few things that are sentimental, just not every little thing.

Therefore, not being a sentimentalist, I never understood the whole "missing" something...that is, until about four years ago when I lost something that I had found a few months prior. Until you have something, you cannot actually miss it. What do I mean? Let me give you an example: a friend who grew up in a single parent household was once asked if she missed having a father. Her response: "How do you miss something you never had?" Excellent reply!

I've mentioned my past heartache before (most recently Day 1): four and half years ago, I met an amazing person. We seemed to have an immediate connection and, even though we lived over 200 miles apart, we managed to create a friendship that became one of the most important of my life. I admit I fell hard for this person, but the relationship didn't last for a myriad of reasons. While I still miss this person, that's not the focus of my "something that I miss".

The something that I miss is the daily connection that I had with this person. Every day, we managed to chat with each other - sometimes for only a few minutes, sometimes for hours. It was just so amazing to have someone with whom I could talk with about life; silly things, sad things, happy things, etc. Those of you who have a significant other with whom you share your hopes, dreams, and frustrations will understand this scenario. What I truly miss: having someone whom I cared for that I could come home to; who will provide me with emotional support and advice; and conversely, I can provide them with the same. That human connection. Yes, my cat provides me love and affection, but it's not the same. For those of you who happen to have a person like this in your life, please go home and tell them how much you love and appreciate them. For if you lose them, it is devastating.

Like my friend with no father, I didn't know what was missing from my life before January 2010. Now that I know, my life has a yawning chasm that will forever be unfilled and that chasm widens a bit each day. All I can do is walk around the edges and hope I don't fall into the pit. There's an old saying that "You never know what you have until you lose it." I call shenanigans on this statement. At least for me, I knew what I had...

Oh, one more thing: I also really miss having a pool in which to swim.

Next up: Day 17 - Am I an actual Aquarian?

Monday, July 28, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 15 - My Day

Woo hoo. We've reached the halfway point. Day 15: "Bullet point your whole day."

Ready to be bored to tears? What's listed below is basically what my entire summer has been like. I enjoy it, but you will be bored.

Here it is - my day:
  • Woke up very slowly - listened to the sounds of morning (birds chirping, cars starting, cat meowing) for about 15 minutes before rolling out of bed
  • Fed the cat to stop the meowing
  • Strength trained while watching the news
  • Performed morning toilette
  • Breakfast
  • Continued reading The Autobiography of Malcolm X 
  • Annoyed the cat
  • Some planning for the new school year
  • Lunched at a Chinese restaurant
  • Continued reading The Book of Life (book 3 in the All Souls trilogy)
  • Annoyed the cat some more
  • 1 hour of cardio
  • Another shower, because after my workout .... EEEEEUUUWWWWW!!!!
  • Watched a special news report on a tornado touchdown in a neighboring county
  • Fed the cat again
Here's what I have planned for the rest of the day:
  • Cooking and eating dinner
  • A walk to the library to pick up a DVD being held
  • Catchup on DVR-ed television
  • Continue to annoy cat
  • Continue reading The Book of Life
  • Sleep
See? Boring. The "annoy the cat" parts of my day coincide with the reading/watching TV portion. She usually plunks down next to me on the couch and I pet her which she finds annoying after awhile. Yet she still comes back for more. Weird animal.

Tomorrow, Day 15 - something that I miss (really!?!? This list hates me!)


Sunday, July 27, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 14 - Utterly Re-watchable Movies

It's Day 14 of the writing challenge:  "Post your favorite movies that you never get tired of watching."

Oooooh, fun! Finally a topic that doesn't make me want to punch someone in the face.

I love movies and I love finding movies that I can watch over and over again. I re-watch movies for varying reasons, usually to either make me laugh, make me cry, or to fire me up. I decided to break my list into the following four categories: Comedies (movies that make me laugh every time), Dramas (either tear jerkers or ass kicking movies), Epics (movies or series of movies that you need to set aside a certain amount of time to enjoy), and finally, Animated (something for the kid in all of us). They're listed in alphabetical order.

Comedies

Dramas

Epics

Animated

There are quite a few others that I love and re-watch, but these are my top choices. Now that I've listed them, I may need to watch some of them today.

Tomorrow's subject (Day 15): Bullet point your day (get ready for boredom)

Saturday, July 26, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 13 - What Excites Me

The days are clicking along. We are now onto day 13: "What are you most excited about?"

Ummm...not much.

I've learned something over the past few years: don't get excited over big things. Why? It boils down to what I know about life...or at least my life. My life has been a series of disappointments and failures - failed relationships, failed careers, failed health, etc. In particular, the things that I was most excited about ended up being the worst failures (i.e., my performing career, certain relationships, etc.). Those failures continue to plague me on an emotional level, and I just don't want to deal with that level of disappointment anymore. 

So I make a conscious effort not to get too excited about much these days. If you stay placid, then when life inevitably falls apart, you don't go through a major emotional upheaval. Therefore, I limit my excitement to those things that can't crush my spirit: books, movies, music, food, and television. If any of these five items disappoint, it's no big deal. There's another book, movie, musician, restaurant, or show to discover.

Here are the upcoming items to which I'm looking forward: series 5 of Downton Abbey, series 2 of The Paradise, the film Boyhood, The Book of Life (book 3 of A Discovery of Witches series). And if any of these suck, life goes on.
Next up: Day 14 - movies I never tire of watching

Friday, July 25, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 12 - My 5 Blessings

Day 12 is all about blessings:  "Write about 5 blessings in your life."

The mildly religious connotation aside, this subject is not one of my favorite things in which to write. This subject makes me think of Eminem's song "So Far..." in which he states "I'd count my blessings, but I suck at math." I suppose like most people, I tend to focus on the negatives because they seem so much more numerous and vexing to me.

When coming up with this list, I immediately thought of 2 things, but after that, I had to think a little more outside the box and be creative.  Note that I will not be listing "good health" as one of my blessings in life.

My family and friends

I list my friends and family together because often my friends are my family. These are the people who are always there when I need them. Their love and affection is unconditional and they provide support and advice when needed. My friends and family help me grow as a person.

My career/job

First, in this economy, I'm grateful just to have a job, but being a teacher is much more than "just a job". Back when I was a corporate grunt, I hated going to work, but needed to in order to pay my bills. Now, that I'm teaching, I go to work with a sense of purpose and while my current school is not ideal and it's often frustrating working there, I do love what I do. And I get paid for it. It's a win-win.

Ability to read and write

There are more than 796 million people in the world who cannot read or write. I am grateful to be able to do these two things, especially as both give me such joy.

A comfortable home

When I think back to all those years of living in NYC and seeing the countless homeless people, I certainly am thankful that I have a roof over my head. It is a home that I call my own, even if I do have to pay a pretty penny for it.

Nourishing food

"There are 842 million undernourished people in the world today. That means one in eight people do not get enough food to be healthy and lead an active life. Hunger and malnutrition are in fact the number one risk to health worldwide -- greater than AIDS, malaria and tuberculosis combined" (World Food Programme). With statistics like these, everyone should be grateful that they have food in their pantry and/or money enough to purchase food.
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While trying to come up with my list of 5 blessings, I came across the following quote by Charles Dickens: "Reflect on your present blessings, on which every man has many, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some." I'm not sure I entirely agree with good old Boz, but it's probably good advice.


Tomorrow is Day 13 - What are you most excited about?

Thursday, July 24, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 11 - What If...

Here we are at day 11 - Write something you always think "What if..." about.

Oh goodness. The "what if" game. I play this game way too often - sometimes to very depressing conclusions! When I play the game, I run through a variety of questions. For example, worldwide questions: "What if women ran the world?" "What if there were no wars?" "What if there had been no religion?" Whimsical questions: "What if everyone had superpowers?" "What if aliens have visited Earth and I missed seeing them?" "What if the hokey pokey is really is what it's all about?" Then there are the inevitable personal questions: "What if my parents had been good at parenting?" "What if I hadn't quit performing professionally?" and the one question that haunts me daily: "What if the rapport I had with My Mr. Darcy had resulted in a 'happily ever after' fantasy ending instead of with the opposite reality?" But none of these questions are nearly as important as:

What if television had never been invented?

The invention of television certainly led to advancements in technology leading us to our current style of living - computers, cell phones, etc. Additionally, television provides mass communication and a variety of entertainment to appeal to every watcher. Modern conveniences aside, television has also helped with a bigger issue: Earth's sustainability! 

According to scientists, the current population of the Earth is three times the sustainable level, but it could be so much worse. The invention of the television has acted as a birth control. Over the past 70 years (since the invention of the television), birth rates have been steadily decreasing. "Compared with the 1950s (when the birth rate was 36 per thousand), the birth rate has declined by 16 per thousand" (Wikipedia). Coincidence? I think not. With the invention of television, people had other alternatives at night. Think about what happens 9 months after either natural disasters or human error knocks all the power out. People have nothing better to do in the dark than have sex. Although, how birth control ceases to work on those same nights is a mystery to me! 

In addition to providing us with ample entertainment and technological advances, the television has contributed to the decline in births, which leads to a more sustainable Earth. If you see the chart below, the places in India which have high birth rates, also have lower television ownership. It's an interesting statistic. I propose that we make sure there is a television in every house, wigwam, igloo, beach hut, sod house, cave, and any other dwelling you can list.


Tomorrow's topic: Day 12 - Write about 5 blessings in your life. (Meh!)

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 10 - A Strong Rant!

Day 10: "Write something for which you feel strongly."  (Don't I do this already?)

This topic begs the question: What I can opine about which I haven't already covered prior to today? Hmmm.... I struggled all morning on what I should discuss. I contemplated writing about the following subjects: the slow whittling away of women's rights, the on-going crises in the Ukraine and Israel, drivers who don't use turn signals. But then after going out to a store earlier today, I decided that I really needed to bitch about something...

People need to always ... and I mean ALWAYS ... wear deodorant!

Yeah, yeah, I know. Someone will mention that there are people who have sensitive skin and can't wear it or others will say "nature made us this way. It's natural." Blah, blah, blah. Skunks are natural too, but I don't want to smell them. Interestingly, some people can get away with not wearing deodorant and will not have an odor problem. In fact there was a study in the UK, which concluded that approximately 2% of the UK population does not have the gene to produce body odor. But what about the other 98%?

I'm sorry, the foulness from some people can be overwhelmingly harsh. I used to work in a law firm where the woman who sat next to me never used deodorant. Can you imagine what it was like to sit next to that on a daily basis for a year? It was one of the reasons I quit the job! In fact, another coworker and I almost decided to go out and purchase deodorant for her and leave it anonymously on her desk, but decided that it was too cruel. I mean, she was a nice woman, but rank! Like Pepé Le Pew rank!

Do you know there's an entire country that apparently has decided the deodorant is unnecessary? I'm talking about France. Don't get me wrong - I loved France when I vacationed there, but I swear going down into the metro in Paris, I thought I'd pass out from the smell alone. It was that noxious! I wasn't even there during the height of summer. In August, do Parisians have to wear nose plugs?

Now I don't mean that people should go splashing themselves with a bunch of heavy perfumed soaps and dousing themselves with colognes. Gah! That's equally bad. I don't mind the occasional scent, but if I can smell you in the next county, it's too much.

People could start off simply enough with...oh, I don't know...showering! Yeah, that's a good start, but let's follow up with a swish or two under the arms with deodorant. And guess what? You don't have to buy flowery smelling deodorant. There's scent-free deodorant. You can even make your own deodorant. Okay, people let's get cracking on this.

Check out Brian Babylon's commentary on body odor:

Tomorrow's subject: Day 11 - Write something you always think "What if..." about. (Argh!)

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 9 - Words of Wisdom

We're on day 9 which is: "Post some words of wisdom that speak to you".

The problem with doing a writing challenge when you've written as much as I have, you sometimes come across writing prompts that you've already discussed...twice!  :-)  There were two postings that discussed the words of wisdom that speak to me: "Love All, Trust Few, Do Wrong to None" and "Unforgettable Quotes". I'm not sure how I can expand on these two posts.

As I mentioned in "Unforgettable Quotes", I keep a running list of all of my favorite words of wisdom, which is currently up to 62 quotes. I suppose all I can do is reiterate my favorites.  I'll give you my current top 8:
  1. "Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none." – William Shakespeare (1564-1616), All's Well That Ends Well (Act I, Scene I)
  2. "It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone."  – Rose Kennedy, wife of Joseph Kennedy and the mother of President John F. Kennedy (1890-1995)
  3. "It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities." – Albus Dumbledore (Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, J.K. Rowling)
  4. "To the well-organized mind, death is but the next great adventure." – Albus Dumbledore (Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone, J.K. Rowling)
  5. "Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." – Eleanor Roosevelt, First Lady, US diplomat and reformer (1884-1962)
  6. "We, the unwilling, led by the unknowing, are doing the impossible for the ungrateful. We have done so much, for so long, with so little, we are now qualified to do anything with nothing." – Konstantin Josef Jireček, Czech historian, politician, diplomat, and Slavist (1854-1918)
  7. "To thine own self be true." – William Shakespeare (1564-1616), Hamlet (Act I, Scene III)
  8.  "If it's true that our species is alone in the universe, then I'd have to say that the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little." – George Carlin, American comedian and actor (1937-2008)
And speaking about my love of words and all things English-related, I must add to this posting, one of "Weird Al" Yankovic's recent songs, "Word Crimes". Spot on and hilarious! I fully intend to show this video the first week of school.

Next up: Day 10 - Write something for which you feel strongly.

Actors Who've Passed Away During Filming...

This coming Friday (July 25), a British espionage-thriller film based on a novel by John le Carré - A Most Wanted Man is set to be released. The star of the film is the late Philip Seymour Hoffman. Hoffman passed away earlier this year, which was a considerable loss to to the performance industry. Hoffman's work on the film had been completed, but it's always strange to have films released after a performer has passed away. In fact, there are still two more movies which are set to be released in the next couple of years in which Hoffman has an integral part (Hunger Games: Mockingjay - Part 1 and Part 2). He had completed filming Part 1, but still had a few scenes left for Part 2. The filmmakers have worked around this problem. Hoffman will be digitally recreated for a major scene that included his character, one that Hoffman had left to shoot at the time of his death. Some of his remaining dialogue was rewritten and given to other characters

Hoffman was not the first (nor will be the last) actor to have passed away during the filming of a movie. Here is a list of actors who have died during filming of a movie or television series:

Paul Walker

In November 2013, the star of the Fast & Furious franchise died in a car crash while in the middle of filming Fast & Furious 7 in Atlanta. Two films, Hours and Brick Mansions were released posthumously and Fast & Furious 7 is scheduled be released on April 3, 2015. The studio managed to complete the film using Walker's brothers (Caleb and Cody) as stand-ins and using CGI to replicate his voice and face.

Cory Monteith

Actor Cory Monteith died of a drug overdose in a hotel room in Canada on July 13, 2013, right before a new season of the show Glee was set to film. Monteith's character (Finn) was subsequently killed off the show without an indication of how his character died. 

Heath Ledger

The star of Brokeback Mountain and The Dark Knight died in 2008 after a drug overdose, about a third of the way through filming on The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus. Subsequent to Ledger's death, three different actors (Johnny Depp, Colin Farrell and Jude Law) took over Ledger's role and the movie was released later that year.

George Reeves

George Reeves died of a controversial gunshot wound in 1959 before starting filming on a new season of The Adventures of Superman. One would think that when the actor playing Superman died, so goes the show. But the producers made a suggestion to the actor who played cub reporter, Jimmy Olson (Jack Larson) that the series "could continue as 'Superman's Pal, Jimmy Olsen,' with more focus on Larson continuing his character, playing opposite a 'Superman' who would be a composite of stock shots of George Reeves and a look-alike stunt double to be filmed from behind. Larson rejected the distasteful idea out of hand, and the series was truly over" (Wikipedia).

Freddie Prinze

After struggling with depression and drug use, Freddie Prinze died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound in 1977 while filming Chico And The Man. His character on the show moved to Mexico, and the show continued on for one season after his death.

Michael Conrad

Winner of two Emmy awards for his portrayal of Sgt. Phil Esterhaus in Hill Street Blues, Michael Conrad died of urethral cancer in 1983 during the fourth season. It was thought his role could not be filled by anyone and so a new duty Sergeant (Sgt. Jablonski) was cast to take his place. Conrad's character suffered a heart attack while having sex with another character, Grace Gardner.

Natalie Wood

Natalie Wood died in a controversial boating accident in 1981 before completing work on Brainstorm. Even though nearly all of Wood's major scenes were completed, the studio nearly cancelled the project upon her death. All the sets were locked and frozen on all the stages. No one could get in or out without special permission while negotiations took place. The movie was released two years after her death and was completed by rewriting the remaining scenes and the use of body doubles.

Jerry Orbach

Wisecracking Det. Lennie Briscoe from Law & Order was portrayed by veteran actor Jerry Orbach who died in 2004 after battling prostate cancer for 10 years. At the time of his death, he was working on the spin off Law & Order: Trial by Jury, but only appeared in the first 2 episodes. His character's disappearance was never explained in L&O: TbJ, but other Law & Order franchises mention the demise of the character.

Marilyn Monroe

Famously, Marilyn Monroe died of a drug overdose in 1962 before she could finish filming Something's Got to Give, a remake of My Favorite Wife. The movie was never finished. Twentieth Century-Fox overhauled the entire production with mostly new cast and crew and released the differently titled Move Over, Darling, starring Doris Day, James Garner, and Polly Bergen, 16 months later. Interesting fact: had the original movie been completed and released, Monroe would have been the first mainstream star to appear nude in a movie.

Nancy Marchand

Emmy winner, Nancy Marchand died of lung cancer in 2000 while starring as Tony Soprano's manipulative mother on The Sopranos. As a result, her character's death was written into the third season story line of the show.

Oliver Reed

English actor, Oliver Reed died of a heart attack in a bar in 1999 before completing work on the Russell Crowe epic film Gladiator. Several of his scenes in the movie had to be completed using CGI techniques and, in one place, a mannequin. Interestingly, in the original script, Reed's character Proximo was supposed to live.

Brandon Lee

Son of martial arts film star, Bruce Lee, Brandon Lee was killed in 1993 in an accidental shooting on the set of his first feature film, The Crow. The movie was still released, with rewrites, a stunt double, and special effects being used for the last few scenes Lee had yet to complete.

John Spencer

John Spencer died of a heart attack in 2005 while starring on The West Wing. In the show, his character, Leo McGarry, also died of a heart attack on election night. Spencer's name remained in the opening credits for the remainder of the show's run.

John Ritter

After collapsing on the set of 8 Simple Rules for Dating My Teenage Daughter in 2003, John Ritter was rush to the hospital, but died of an aortic dissection later that night. The show, retitled 8 Simple Rules, continued for another season with David Spade and James Garner as replacements. Ritter's character was killed off.

Redd Foxx

Comedian and actor, Redd Foxx suffered a heart attack in 1991 on the set of The Royal Family. "According to Joshua Rich at Entertainment Weekly, 'It was an end so ironic that for a brief moment cast mates figured Foxx -- whose 70s TV character often faked heart attacks -- was kidding when he grabbed a chair and fell to the floor'" (Wikipedia). The producers decided not to continue with the remaining episodes, but put the show on hiatus in order to rework the storyline. But ultimately, the show was a failure without Foxx and was subsequently cancelled.

Diana Hyland

In 1977, Diana Hyland was cast to portray the wife/mother in the ABC series Eight Is Enough. She appeared in only four episodes before falling ill with breast cancer. Her character was written out of the show and she died 12 days after the first episode aired. At the start of Season 2, Tom Bradford was identified as a 'widower' for about a year, but with no mention how his wife dies.

Jon-Erik Hexum

Jon-Erik Hexum died in 1984 after an unintentional self-inflicted blank cartridge gunshot wound to the head on the set of the television show Cover Up in which he played the male lead. The show continued production with a new actor, but was canceled after the first season.

Bela Lugosi

Horror film legend, Bela Lugosi had a heart attack in 1956 while filming Plan 9 from Outer Space. Director Ed Wood hired his wife's chiropractor, Tom Mason, as a stand-in for Lugosi, even though Mason was taller than Lugosi and bore no resemblance to him.

Nicholas Colasanto

Am I the only one who missed the lovable 'Coach' from Cheers? Colasanto died in 1985 of a heart attack while starring on the hit sitcom as Coach Ernie Pantusso. The character was killed off and actor Woody Harrelson took over the dimbulb bartender role the next season.

John Candy

The Second City alum, John Candy died of a heart attack in 1994, while on location in Mexico filming Wagons East!. His few remaining scenes were either not filmed, or were filmed using a stand-in, then re-written not to involve him.

Vic Morrow

A truly tragic tale. Vic Morrow died in an on-set accident in 1982 while filming Twilight Zone - The Movie. Morrow and two child actors (who were working illegally) perished gruesomely when a helicopter lost control. Three different cameras that were rolling caught the footage. Arguably, this accident is the worst movie set disaster. The movie was still released with Morrow's section included, but rewritten to remove that scene.

River Phoenix

While filming the movie Dark Blood, River Phoenix died of a drug overdose in 1993. The film was not completed due to the death of Phoenix shortly before the end of the project and remained unfinished for 19 years. In 2012 and 2013, it was shown at a few film festivals, with George Sluizer providing narration for the roughly four to six missing scenes.

Larry Hagman

Larry Hagman died of complications of acute myeloid leukemia in 2012 while filming the Dallas reboot. His iconic character J.R. Ewing was killed off on the show with a bit of a twist in which J.R. hires someone to kill him but managed to get another character blamed for murder. Never a fan of Dallas, he will also be Major Tony Nelson to me.

Phil Hartman

In 1998 before production began on a fifth season of NewsRadio, Phil Hartman was killed by his wife. Hartman's death is addressed in the first episode of the fifth season, where his character is revealed to have died of a sudden heart attack. He also voiced several characters on The Simpsons, all of which were retired after his death. Classy move!

Monday, July 21, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 8 - My Struggle

One week done, second week starting - Day 8: "Share something you struggle with."

Oh easy - Math! HA! Just kidding. I mean I really hate math, but I don't actually struggle with it.

I suppose like most people, I struggle with lots of different things, but probably the hardest thing for me is trusting. I can count on one hand the people that I can trust (with a couple of fingers left over). But my trust issues extend much further than just people, although that's the biggest issue. Here are a few other things I don't trust: life (two cancer battles and other woes), the Earth (sinkholes, volcanoes, earthquakes), the weather (hurricanes, tornadoes, blizzards), the news (Fox especially), corporations (greedy a-holes), subway grates (ruining shoes, blowing nasty air up, safety?), the government....well, that one is justified for all of us. I'm not even certain I can trust my cat. She'll eat my face off when I croak.

The problem with having trust issues is that these concerns lead to a whole host of other problems. But it's hard to trust when you've been burned as much as I've been in life. Therefore, I have learned to accept that I cannot trust anything. Eh, there isn't anything I can do about this problem. 

By the way, BuzzFeed has a list of 21 things you should never trust. Check it out! Funny stuff!

Tomorrow: Day 9 - Post some words of wisdom that speak to you.

Sunday, July 20, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 7 - 10 Songs I'm Loving

How quickly the days fly by! I'm up to day 7: "List 10 songs that you're loving right now."

This topic is pretty easy.  All anyone has to do is look at my recent "Music Doesn't Lie" postings and you'll see what I'm loving at the moment. But that's too much work for everyone.  

Right now, I am completely obsessed with listening to English singer-songwriter, Ed Sheeran's two albums, + (read as "plus") (2012) and x (read as "multiply") (2014). I just keep flipping between the two - when I reach the end of one, I switch to the other and vice versa. Eventually I will tire of them, but not at the moment. As there are 32 songs in total between the two albums, I picked my top 10. Easier said than done!

Listed in order of preference - the videos are live versions of the songs (except "Runaway" - couldn't find a live version):
  1. "Wake Me Up" from + (video) (lyrics)
  2. "Thinking Out Loud" from x (video) (lyrics)
  3. "Sing" from x (video) (lyrics)
  4. "The A Team" from + (video) (lyrics)
  5. "U.N.I." from + (video) (lyrics)
  6. "Photograph" form x (video) (lyrics)
  7. "Runaway" from x (video) (lyrics)
  8. "I'm a Mess" from x (video) (lyrics)
  9. "Take It Back" from x (video) (lyrics)
  10. "Small Bump" from + (video) (lyrics)
The list is slightly uneven as there are few more from x than +, which does not mean that + is inferior. I just have listened to x a little more than +. Seriously, both albums are just filled with an abundance of brilliant music. There isn't one song that I "suffer" through or skip to get to the next one. Every song is fabulous. I suggest if you're going to purchase them, you should buy the deluxe editions!

Anyway, this is one talented musician! I cannot wait to hear his next album, which probably won't be for awhile.

Tomorrow, Day 8: Share something you struggle with.


Saturday, July 19, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 6 - 5 Ways to Win My Heart

We're up to Day 6: "List 5 ways to win your heart."

No, no, no, no, NO!! I don't want to do this one! I hate this writing assignment! ARGH. Okay, I'll just suck it up and get it over with.

Books

I don't need/want flowers, perfume or chocolates...well, I wouldn't say no to chocolates, but I don't need them. You want to give me a gift -- find a book that you think that I will enjoy and purchase it.  Even better, give me a library. Why a book? It indicates to me that you understand and know me.

Respect

Show me respect at all times - even when we're disagreeing. Respect my opinions, my likes, my dislikes. You don't have to like or agree with me in all things, but you need to respect my choices.

Laughter

Make me laugh! Life's too short and is often awful. Laughter and good times are what makes life bearable.

Challenge my mind

I love to keep my intellect sharp, so challenge me. There are all sorts of ways to do this: introduce me to new things, trivia, friendly debates, etc.

Love my cat

My cat is the closest thing I have to a child. Love her or go away. 

Okay, done.  I never want to answer something like this again.

Tomorrow - Day 7: 10 songs I'm loving
How could you not love this furry face?

Friday, July 18, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 5 - 5 Places I Want to Visit

We're cracking along. It's day 5: "List 5 places you want to visit."

Wow, I'm limited to just 5. This is going to be difficult. If you remember from Day 1, one of the things that makes me very happy is traveling. I've always said that if I ever won the lottery for a boatload of bucks, all I would do is travel.

I really don't get a chance to travel as much as I would like. Some of the places I've been fortunate to travel to are: London, Paris, Milan, Venice, Florence, Pisa, Rome, Key West, Montreal, and Quebec City, but there are so many more places I would like to see.  To try and limit my list to 5, I started with making a list of every place I'd like to see. I have 33 places on this list, then I started thinking if I were given 6 months to live (something that is a real possibility any day now), which are the 5 that I must see before I die.

Here's what I decided - in no specific order:

Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe/Zambia

Located on the border of Zimbabwe and Zambia, Victoria Falls is classified as the largest waterfall on the planet - although neither the highest nor widest. It is based on its width of 5,604 ft and height of 354 ft, resulting in the world's largest sheet of falling water. "David Livingstone, the Scottish missionary and explorer, is believed to have been the first European to view Victoria Falls on 16 November 1855 from what is now known as Livingstone Island, one of two land masses in the middle of the river, immediately upstream from the falls on the Zambian side. Livingstone named his discovery in honour of Queen Victoria, but the indigenous name, Mosi-oa-Tunya -- 'the smoke that thunders' -- continues in common usage as well" (Wikipedia). This is one amazing natural wonder of the world. Of course, any trip to Africa must include going on safari to a wildlife reserve. Cost: approx. $8000 for a 10 day safari/Victoria Falls visit.

Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Every time I watch a movie filmed in Amsterdam (i.e., Diamonds Are Forever, Oceans Twelve, and The Faults in Our Stars), I think to myself: "Why haven't I visited that city?" The 'Venice of the North' is a picturesque city filled with bicycles (over 600,000), canals (165), and bridges (1,281). It was the home of Anne Frank, and houses the largest collection of Van Gogh paintings. Yes, it is also known for its red light district and cannabis coffeeshops. It has a rich history and plenty of attractions, all within a compact, easily traveled area. It's an urban village and so very, very pretty. Cost: approx. $2000 for a 1 week stay.

Machu Picchu, Peru

Located in the Cusco Region, Urubamba Province, Machupicchu District in Peru, Machu Picchu is a 15th-century Inca site located 7,970 ft above sea level. It is situated on a mountain ridge above the Sacred Valley and most archaeologists believe that Machu Picchu was built as an estate for the Inca emperor Pachacuti (1438–1472). "Often mistakenly referred to as the 'Lost City of the Incas', it is perhaps the most familiar icon of Inca civilization" (Wikipedia). Built by the Incas in 1450, it was abandoned a century later during the Spanish conquest. Generally, most people hike the Inca Trail in order to reach the summit - which is either a 2- or 4-day hike, but I hear it's worth it. Cost: approx. $2000 for a 7 day trip.

Athens, Greece

For someone interested in ancient history, Athens is the place to be. One of the world's oldest cities, with its recorded history spanning around 3,400 years, Athens has so many attractions that thrill and amaze travelers: the Acropolis, the Parthenon, the Erechtheum, the Temple of Hephaestus, the Odeon of Herodes Atticus... well, the list just goes on and on. One of my favorite places to visit while traveling in Rome was the ancient Roman ruins (and I don't mean Sophie Loren), so traveling to Greece to see the ancient Greek ruins would be a dream come true. Plus there's the added bonus of great food, tons of museums, and nice people. Of course, no visit to Greece is complete without a visit to one of the Greek islands: Santorini, Mykenos, Corfu, etc. Cost: approx. $2400 for 2 days in Athens and 4 days in Santorini.

San Francisco to Los Angeles to San Diego, California

Okay, one of my dreams has been to complete the ultimate California road trip (in a convertible, of course) from San Francisco down the cost of California to San Diego, making stops along the way in Monterey, Carmel, Santa Barbara, Los Angeles and wherever else the wind takes me. Before leaving SF, I'd swing north to Napa Valley. Perhaps go across to Tijuana while in San Diego. How much fun does this sound? I've never visited California and have been dying to go but it just hasn't happened. Places to see along the way are the Hearst Castle, vineyards in Napa Valley (and I don't even like wine), the Winchester Mystery House, Catalina Island, and so much more. Theoretically, this trip should take some time. I would probably earmark at least 2 weeks. Cost: approx. $3500 for 2 weeks.

These are just my top 5. Some other destinations on my wish list are: Capetown, Dublin, Barcelona, Bora Bora, Sydney/Melbourne, Cairo/Pyramids, and many, many more!

Next up: Day 6 - Five Way to Win Your Heart (ugh!)

Thursday, July 17, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 4 - An Inspiring Person

We're up to Day 4: "Write about someone who inspires you."

There are so many inspiring people that have lived in this world, it's difficult to narrow it down to just one. You have the obvious choices: Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Princess Di, Martin Luther King, Jr., Eleanor Roosevelt, Justin Bieber. Ha! Not! Just seeing if you're paying attention. But I wanted to focus on an inspirational person who is not famous, but has been an inspiration for me my entire life:

My Aunt Jo


The seventh out of 11 children born to Italian immigrants (my grandparents), my mother's sister is an amazing woman. At the age of 89 (I feel comfortable writing her age because she proudly mentions it to anyone - and rightly so)... at the age of 89, my Aunt Jo has more vim, vigor, piss and vinegar than any 12 people I know.

What makes Aunt Jo such an interesting and inspiring person is that when her first husband (my Uncle Jimmy) passed away over 40 years ago, Aunt Jo needed to figure out a way to support her three children. She could have played the weak, helpless woman and begged others for assistance, but no, that's not her way. With no business education or background, she took her at-home, casual, hair salon and turned it into a thriving beauty salon. She purchased a salon that had a home attached (upstairs), where she could keep an eye on my cousins and still work. Instead of finding an office job or working in someone else's salon, she chose the harder, but more rewarding solution - opening her own business. Despite having the same genetic make-up, I'm not so certain that my mother would have been able to do something so risky. Aunt Jo was so committed to her clients, that if one of them was in hospital or sick at home, but needed their hair "done", Aunt Jo would travel to them with styling gear in hand. After all, what woman doesn't want to look pretty when in hospital. :-) Visiting the salon was a treat for me because I just loved to sit and listen to the chatter. It was non-stop. Yes, yes, I've heard all the jokes about beauty salons and gossip. It's true. I also admire her ability to work with all that hair (see yesterday's posting).

At one point, I believe when she was in her 70s, she drove a shiny red sports car - and drove it well. Aunt Jo has a zest for life that is still apparent today. When I saw her back in December at my mother's funeral, she is the same feisty firebrand. Her memory is sharp as a tack and other than a couple of shoulder problems (which she refuses to get fixed!), she is healthy as a horse. When we went out for dinner after the wake, she sat with a cocktail in hand, holding court, and entertaining the table. She is a wise and intelligent lady. I predict that she will outlive us all. In addition, my aunt is kinder and certainly more respectful to me than my own mother ever was!

Because we live 900 miles apart, I don't get a chance to see my aunt very often and that makes me sad. As she is the last surviving child of my grandparents, when she does pass on (probably in a 100 years or so), it will be a sad, sad day for my large close-knit family. I will always remember: my Aunt Jo's love, the family gatherings at her house, the delicious food from her kitchen, and that beautiful smile.

With much love, I raise a toast to her. I also would like to salute another amazing woman who passed away today at the age of 89. Someone who like my aunt was full of life - the Broadway actress and singer, Elaine Stritch. Here's to the ladies who lunch!
Next up: Day 5 - 5 Places I Want to Visit

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

2nd 30 Day Writing Challenge: Day 3 - Top 3 Pet Peeves

Okay, we're at Day 3: What are your top three pet peeves?

What? I have to pick only three pet peeves? But I have so many. ARGH!!  Okay, I can do this. I've already mentioned in the past one of my bigger pet peeves ("I'm Starving!" No, You're Not!), so I won't repeat that one. Here are three of my top pet peeves:

1. People with bad table manners: This peeve runs a gamut of issues: chewing with mouths open, talking with mouths full, smacking and crunching food, slurping soup, belching, sucking on a straw when the glass is nearly empty, texting/emailing while at dinner with others, picking teeth, grooming (fixing hair, flossing teeth, etc.), waiving utensils about, blowing noses, etc. This list is just a partial list of things people shouldn't do when dining and yet I see it over and over again. And yes, I have actually seen someone flossing their teeth just after finishing a meal. Ever had dinner with someone who did any of these things? It's an embarrassment and makes you lose your appetite. This video is a perfect example:
I'm thoroughly grossed out now!

2. Hair where it shouldn't be: Hair stuck on bathroom walls, in a bar of soap, the drain, my food, etc. <shudder> It just grosses me out to no end. I remember being freaked out at the gym years ago when I went to take a shower and there was a long hair stuck to the wall of the shower. Fortunately I saw it before I stepped in or I would have had to take a shower all over again. Ugh!

3. Tapping, humming, whistling:  Pretty much any random noise irritates the ever loving crap out of me. It makes my insides uncomfortable, the hairs stand up on the back of my neck, and I believe who ever is doing it, is up to no good, about to be up to no good or already did something they shouldn't. Here's an example of something that just grates on my nerves! It's only 15 seconds long and yet I thought my head would explode just listening to this noise.

Tomorrow, Day 4: An Inspiring Person